I would ike to preface that it from the stating that I’m in the a good closed, polyfidelitous throuple/triad
Borderline Date Or maybe just Jerk?

We was indeed with her for five years, married for a few. I has just been matchmaking the fresh new sweetheart within the February of this 12 months. He advised us part right back, early that he has BPD but don’t extremely enter into specifics. This is throughout the one of his out-of-the-bluish breakdowns where he tells us many times that we are going to exit your.
Furthermore you to dysfunction, all of those other very first few days roughly had been higher. He had been very clingy (that we take pleasure in from inside the a partner), and you will high. However virtually must invest era with us (i state one night until 6am just talking and you may cuddling). It was really great.
Then our very own very first disagreement came about. Someday he had outside of the bath, nonetheless damp as well as in a bath towel and you can got a great snapchat images and you can sent they. We thought it was so you’re able to me personally otherwise my better half, however it wasn’t. I asked your about this in which he said it actually was to his son pal (just who obtained got somewhat of a past, but only casually flirt now). Immediately after he blew right up about it following calmed off and you can we spoke as a consequence of they, we concerned the fresh consensus so it was not match or ok to deliver flirtatious snaps like that so you can old “f buddies” or exes. And then he agreed and you may volunteered so you can remove/stop the people he had been taking. That he did, even after me personally informing your the guy did not have so you’re able to.
Fastforward, he seems very emotionally unavailable from time to time.My better half have persistent suicidal advice you to recur once within the a blue moonlight. […]